Ma Vie en France
I live in France. Sometimes I'm teaching. Most of the times I'm playing.
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Been bad for the last few months
I apologize for having been less than disciplined writing in my blog. As I said before, I think the more this feels like home, the less I think about blogging what I now consider "ordinary." Compared to the life I had in the Midwest, it is hardly ordinary. I work 12 hrs or less a week, going to a cafe to people watch is a past time, and I jet around to different countries, if someone had said something about that "lifestyle" being ordinary back in September as I prepared to leave, I would have had to laugh in their face. Between government housing assistance money, school vacations, and flexible teachers, I have been fortunate enough to visit four different countries within four weeks, five days in Italy, 3 days in Munich, Germany, 2 days in Salzburg, Austria and this coming weekend, 4 days in Porto, Portugal. its absolutely incredible to me just how easy it is to do this. My teachers and students stare at me with their mouths open when I tell them what I'm doing but the truth is between discount airlines (30€ round trip flights do not exist in the states), booking trains early in advance for crazy discounts, hostels, and couch surfing, it is really affordable! Even for someone making less than $1000 in a month. Really, I don't make a lot of money. While I'm not in love with the work, it has been even more instilled in me that I do not want to be a teacher, I have been so fortunate to be able to take part in this experience. Having seen Giulia and Natalie, old roomies and great friends from the U and my sister Molly in the last month, I've been able to see a lot of change and growth in myself. I have learned an independence that I didn't think I could have. I miss my friends and family when I'm not with them, but I also have found real friendships and relationships don't require constant contact or conversation and can be picked up where you left off as if you just saw them yesterday which only helps to reassure me even more that I want to live here. I don't know for how long, maybe for another year or two, maybe for longer. I don't know. There's something about the added challenge of day to day life here, having to work just a little harder at conversations, going to the grocery store, talking to your banker that I think makes the ease of living in the states almost too boring for me at the moment. I have never been the most model student, I hate reading textbooks, writing papers, etc, but learning through doing, hands on discovery is something that I can't get enough of, which is what I get here. Of course there's no guarantee that ill be able to find a job or a means of staying here, but I'm going to do my best. Maybe one day ill actually be able to call myself french, passport and all. Who knows. Till then, ill do my best to catch you up on my trips once I get back to my apt early this next week.
Love and kisses to all!
Sunday, January 9, 2011
5 day weekend? Sweet!
Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend! I may be far away but I'm cheering on the Packers from far away! Beat the Eagles! If only Blois was a city that I could be in a sports bar watching the game but unfortunately i will just be doing my best to follow the game online.
I survived my first full week back in Blois, just barely. Well, that's not exactly true. It really wasn't as strenuous as I expected. Due to jet lag and all the excitement of le Nouvel An, Monday was a rough day of school. I think my body was so confused about what time it was in the city I was in that I could not fall asleep til about 4am which made my 6:30 alarm a particularly painful wake up call. I somehow survived the day (with the help of two different naps) and by Tuesday I was finally readjusted. Flying to Europe is much more painful than the return in my opinion. It's something about arriving and suddenly its early the next morning that is much more challenging than arriving the same day.
Anyways, this week was an important one. We celebrated our very first birthday. Our favorite Brit, Harry Phillips turned 21 years old. Of course, we're in Europe so 21 is just another age. But we were not going to accept that. We were going to do it up, American style. What does this mean? Thanks to Emily's wonderful mother, we had the classic American Party RED CUPS.
I know what you might be thinking, can't you get red cups in Europe? I'm sure they have the same thing. WRONG. The weight, size, totally different. So around 10 pm we gathered Chez Harry and had a mini flip cup tournament. Although we were mostly americans, it felt nice to really introduce the game to a Brit and German. Although our German friend had already played. It did bring out my super competitive side, screaming at Harry to use two hands when the cup kept falling. What can I say, I love the game.
The rest of the weekend was pretty low key. And it happened to be a 5 day weekend as well which was a lovely surprise. I am off on Wednesdays which is nice but Thursday when I went to class they said, oh we don't need you today. Awesome!
That's pretty much it. Unexciting. Have a great start of next week!
Go Pack!
Maura
Monday, January 3, 2011
les photos
Le retour
N'importe quel pays, le premier jour apres les vacances sont vachement difficile. Ca, c'est vrai. Mais le jour apres les vacances PLUS le decolage horaire... Ben... C'est le pire.
C'est a dire... No matter what country... The first day after vacation is really hard. That's true. But the first day after vacation plus jet lag, now that's the worst.
I survived my travels back to France, merci a dieu.... But it was just as rocky as my way home. Flying standby with a buddy pass has its perks... Business class, amazing price, ability to change around flights, etc... But never ever again will I do it during a winter/snowy holiday... Especially not with checked luggage. Lesson learned. I said goodbye to my parents early Wednesday morning as I flew off to Minneapolis on my first leg of the flight. I had about 8 hrs to kill so my amazingly wonderful friend and former coworker, Christina Brown, picked me up from the airport and brought be back to her house in Bloomington to catch up and hang out.
In the early afternoon, Christina and her boyfriend drove me back and we shared some sad goodbyes. I went through security and waited by my gate. Bad day to travel. Apparently Delta started upgrading passengers into business class for free... The section that has the open seats. I knew the second they started asking for volunteers to fly the next day due to overbooking I was screwed. But I waited it out. The flight boarded, took off, and I was left without a flight. Wonderful thing about having friends who work at the airport, besides the amazing buddy pass ticket they gave me, is they can keep track of you and hunt you down if you don't get on your flights. Tyler came over to my gate, helped me make plans for Jessie to come get me and accompanied me down to baggage claim to get my backpack back. But my backpack never came. This was the only moment I really dealt with any delta employee that was any less than wonderful. This woman was (excuse my french mes amis) a real bitch. Not being particularly comforting, helpful, or understanding, after an hour and a half she finally decided for me, well you don't need your bag, your flight is tomorrow. Well okay then!
So I left to meet Jessie where we dined on chipotle, caught up, drank some wine which had me asleep on the couch by 10. What can I say, it was a long day.
Fast forward to the next day, I made it on my flight (business class + 4 glasses of champagne + 2 glasses of red wine = amazing) and I arrived in charles de gaulle on dec 31st after sleeping surprisingly soundly with my eye mask and ear plugs.
Baggage claim. After 40 minutes and everyone else leaving (although the sign still said baggage arriving) I said okay, my things aren't here. This was the point when nothing was really upsetting... Just comical. The very handsome Air France man helped me determine.. No it was not in Paris and no idea where it was. Awesome. Also, I had to come get it myself at the airport because they only deliver it if you fly air france and not delta. Cool. So I take the train to meet zuzu where I immediately drag him to the champs elysses for some impromptu New Years shopping because I just could not go on in the same clothes and as I'm about to step foot into H&M, the most lovely woman from delta calls me to say that my bag has arrived. Despite the fact that I had to pay 17€ to go to and from CDG, I danced my little happy dance for my bag and quickly rushed off to the airport. 4 hours later, I was back in paris, napping for the evening.
NEW YEARS. Wow. I imagine that the champs elysses must be the times square of paris. It was PACKED. Army and police everywhere, taking alcohol bottles from anyone who tried to pass with one...crazy. I was exhausted earlier in the day and did not want to feter without champagne so I shelled out 15€ for a crappy bottle of 3€ champagne to some sketchy characters on the street but it was completely worth it. You can't have new years without a little bubbly. After some yelling and excitement on the CE... We all wandered over to the trocadero which is the big square in front of the eiffel tower which was simply crawling with people ringing in the new year. After a few hours of that madness, plus sliding down what I thought was stairs but actually a ramp (why there are no lights on the trocadero ill never understand), zuse and I hopped on our free metro ride back to our dear friend hayas apt where we spent the night.
The next morning, I took the train back to blois where I spent the rest of the day catching up on sleep. Unfortunately all that sleep plus highly caffeinated tea plus jet lag meant not falling asleep til 4am. I am tired today. But! Its over so I am going to prepare my classes for tomorrow and its early to bed. I should be back on track soon I hope. Gros bisous a tout le monde. For those who I did not see over my holidays, I'm thinking of you. A wonderful, joyful new year to everyone!
Maura
Monday, December 27, 2010
Let's Catch Up Part 2
The day after our big karaoke farewell... I had one last little administrative immigration detail to take care of before I could live the country. A medical exam. Thursday, 6 other assistants and I took the train up to Orleans to visit the OFII - Office Francais de l'Immigration et l'Integration. In order to finalize and validate my visa, I need to get checked out by a French doctor. What this meant was take my top off to get a chest xray, tell them my height, weight, vaccinations and wait for them to put a little piece of paper in my visa called the titre de sejour. After about 2-3 hours we were finally finished and I was officially a resident! Yay!
That night Zuse and I took the train up to Paris because I was flying out the next day from Charles de Gaulle (or so I thought at the time). I was able to see some REAL Christmas markets finally on the Champs Elysees. I was dragging around my backpack at the time so it was hard to really get a good look at anything but I plan on going back when I fly back to Paris the 30th. All along the road, the chatelets contained items from all over parts of France... even things from the states too. I just love the excitement of the holidays, it makes you forget that its cold outside.


I dont really even think these pictures do it justice. It was so pretty.
That evening, after falafel with Zuzu, I took the train up to the airport where I planned to spend my evening. It was not my first time sleeping in the airport alone but it is still never a fun task. For those of you unfamiliar with Charles de Gaulle airport, I can tell you that it is truly the worst airport I have ever experienced in my life. Absolutely awful. There are hardly any chairs to be found and even fewer plugs for computers and cell phones. After charging the computer for a little white in the only plug I could find in the airport, I found a heater and an empty quiet place to set up camp. It's always funny to look around and see the other people there. Some people are there because flights were delayed or canceled or they are waiting for a plane to land, and others are there by choice like me, just trying to save the cost of a hotel room.
Now, I should explain how I was able to manage to come home. A friend of mine from work at the Learning Abroad Center has been working for Delta for the last year or so with her boyfriend. Part of the employee benefits is a certain number of "Buddy Passes" that allow friends and family to fly standby for the cost of taxes and fees. Jess and Tyler were willing to share one of those passes with me which was one of the best christmas gifts I could have asked for. However, one catch is that I need to fly standby meaning, any types of problems, overbooking, what not... I'm the first person to get screwed. So Friday, I wake up after sleeping surprisingly well on the floor in the airport and go check in. I wait in line, answer all the security questions only to get up to the desk and be told, "no, you can't fly today, come back monday." MONDAY. This was Friday morning. I knew that this would be a possibility but I never expected them to tell me Monday. I assumed, come back tomorrow would be the worst answer I would get. Exhausted and a little stunned, I pulled it together and took the train back down to Blois because the round trip ticket was going to be much cheaper than three nights in Paris and Blois is only two hours away.
Although the situation didn't completely work to my favor, I was lucky had the option to return home. As much as I miss the south, if I lived in Montpellier still, going home for the weekend just would not be an option. Plus, I still had friends in the city so instead of moping around, I went out with friends where I hit my all time late night record of 9am. Pretty impressive right? Of course that meant i was too tired to move on Saturday but I had nothing else to do so a day in bed watching Harry Met Sally, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia and Law and Order SVU was totally okay with me.
Then Sunday happened. Paris, London, and Amsterdam experienced a blizzard of about 2-3 inches and everything shut down. Flights were canceled. Airports closed. Disaster. That night I was to take the train back to CDG for another night of sleeping on the floor and I was convinced I was not going to get out. I called Jess, she told me to just go and stick it out in case they told me I couldn't fly out, also suggesting various other routes I could take to get me back into the states, whether it was Cincinnati, Philly or Pittsburgh. I arrived around 11:30 to the CDG train station and as I made my way into Terminal 2E, lines and crowds of people appeared in front of me. I thought oh shit. No way in hell will there be room on this flight for me. At this point, I had passed the point of frustration and reached the point where things were just really funny, took a seat, and waited to feel tired before I found a place on the ground. Remember how I brought up all the travelers you see sleeping in the airport? Well sometimes you make friends. He went by the name of Matthes, a German waiting for a flight to Miami so he could board the world touring cruise ship he worked for. One of my favorite things about meeting other travelers is that everyone has their own stories to tell. Whether its about their home, family or country traditions or places they've seen. Plus, when you make friends in an airport, you automatically have someone to help guard your things. I was especially lucky too, because unlike my first night sleeping in the airport, they handed out foam cushions to sleep on and blankets so Matthes and I set up camp and could actually sleep relatively comfortably given the conditions. The next morning, we were woken up by travelers lining up early to pass through security, clearly.. flights were back on. So we gathered up our things, said goodbye and crossed our fingers that we'd meet again on the other side of security.
Walking back to security, I was shaking, nervous that for the second time I wasn't going to get through. But I checked in smoothly, made it to the other side where I was quick to start a little happy dance as I promised my new German friend as I would do if I made it. When boarding rolled around, the anxiety started to kick in again. Not quite sure how this flying standby worked, I waited through the entire boarding process, first our business class and delta elite passengers can board, then rows 24-40, now general boarding.. then last call. I stood there, waiting for my name to be called, watching as other stranded passengers ran up to the counter, begging to have their ticket changed, with credit cards flying and laptops open, trying to make it to their final destinations in the states. After 10 minutes of Last call flashing on the screen, I felt the tears in my eyes as I began to think that I'm not going to make it through. Just then, KEAN, Maura is yelled. I rush to the counter, grab my ticket and rush through, inappropriately telling every single Delta employee just how much I love them. To my pleasant surprise after all the worrying, I was placed in the one of the best seats of the plane, BUSINESS CLASS. Never have I flown that before and Jess was right, once you do, you never want to go back to coach again. First thing I did was order myself a Miller Lite, an American specialty that I've been missing for the last three months.
Since my amazing arrival back in the states, I have been having a wonderful time, catching up with friends, family, and most importantly, hugging the crap out of my little niecey. Kind of crazy how big they get so quickly.
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| although you can't see it, her onesie underneath said "my aunt is my BFF" purchased by yours truly |
Now I have the ever so unpleasant task of packing. Not looking forward to that.
Well for now, Merry Christmas and a happy new year!
See you in 2011.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Let's Catch Up Part 1
I have a new years resolution. It's not something unattainable like drink less wine or eat healthier because let's be honest, I live in a country where wine and baguettes are very important. No, this one is much simpler. And that's better keeping up with my blog. It really surprises me how many times I've heard since I've been home that people enjoy reading about my life via blogs. I think I often write in a way that's hard to follow since it's more or less my thoughts being spilled out but I'm happy to hear that it's enjoyed. Yes, I did make it back stateside, not without at least a little bit of trouble, but I'm here safe and sound and have been able to have some quality family and friends time which is all I could have asked for. Much has happened to me before then, so I'll reverse.
I last left you with stories of the glorious Christmas season beginning in my charming little town. This meant a month long of vin chaud tasting and hustling and bustling Sundays. "Why can't all year be Christmas time?" I found myself asking.
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| Le Marché de Noel de Blois that included hardly anything Christmas-y |
As we prepared to go our separate ways, we made sure that we would go out with a bang. A few more nights at my favorite local discotheque were a must. Neither time did I return to my house before 6:30 in the morning. Yes, I will admit it is a little crazy but at home now it makes 2:00 am bar close just seem completely ridiculous. I mean, the fun is JUST getting started! Another wonder December treat was my friend from Minnesota, Christine Anderson! Christine had been working at an au pair in Norway and was traveling a bit before going back to the states so she came down to Blois the Sunday before leaving. We met on our floor in Centennial the first day of moving into the dorms where we quickly became friends. However, due to having different groups of friends at school, we didn't often see each other. So having Christine in my apartment in my little city for 4 days was a really great treat!
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| Christine and I kneeling in front of a Christmas tree, Peepers the Christmas squirrel really completed it. |
And I don't think I could have asked for a better guest either. Christine quickly made friends with my friends in Blois, especially Zuzu and was able to explore and entertain herself when I was in class. She also came to a few of my classes and met some of my teachers and students, probably having the most insight to what my life really is like here.
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| Marché de Noel de Tours |
I was thrilled to find their christmas market which was ENORMOUS compared to Blois. It spanned several city streets and I can only imagine how incredible it looked when it was lit up by the christmas lights.
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| Vieux Tours (old Tours) |
We spent the day wandering the city, in and out of shops, and enjoying some delicious kebabs when our search for falafel failed.
That night marked the end of our fall karaoke season. As we had become such regulars (I had only missed on Wednesday since my move to Blois), we decided to mark our send off with a little gift. A christmas spectacle if you will. A gift from the foreigners to the French. After weeks of practice and a few spontaneous dance camps... We had learned the moves to a very well known French song called Alexandrie Alexandra by Claude François. How well known is this dance? Well, just the first few arm motions alone and everyone knew exactly what you were doing.
If you care to see exactly how ridiculous this dance was... I highly recommend watching it.
So this little surprise was so talked up that we even out some of our teachers as well as almost all our French friends to be there.
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No idea if this will be visible to you, but this is us. Harry took the role of Claude Francois and Lea, Lucy, Sharae, Zuzu and Emily and I were the backup dancers.
We had a blast.
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Saint Nicolas: The most unusual Sunday of them all
I'll try to be more regular on this blogging business especially because CHRISTMAS season is starting and apparently that's when things really start to pick up around here. This past week was the first SNOW of the season. Now as much as I despise winter, it was very pretty at some points. Coming from Minnesota where snow is a regular occurrence, I wasn't expecting an inch or two to be a big deal here. Well, for Blois, it might as well have been a BLIZZARD. Snow is not very common in this part of the country and they simply don't have the resources to deal with it. Instead of using shovels and salt, the French used brooms and sand to try to make the city more walkable. One to two inches meant frozen icy slush. Surprisingly I haven't fallen yet (knock on wood) but there were many times i was walking along, doing my thing and WHOA had to catch myself. Awful. Also, very few of us have waterproof or winter shoes so there have been a lot of wet, cold feet for the last week.
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| View from my classroom window |
So what does one to two inches mean for the schools? It means buses don't run and many students (and teachers) therefore cannot or choose not to come to school. What does it mean for me who lives 15 minutes away by foot? Gotta be there for every class. However, the wishful thinker than I am still emailed my contact teacher just to ask.. sooooo what happens when it snows? Do I have to come?... which i of course received a "unfortunately you have to be here sorry!" response... but I had figured it was worth a try.
So 7:30 Monday morning, I drag myself out from under my warm covers, across treacherous sheets of ice and what happens for my 8 am class? dun dun dun. Nothing. By my next class at 11:00, seven of the 24 students showed and my following class at 1:00, only four of the 24 students came. The only benefit to that was normally the classes that have the 24 students are my most difficult to control so we were able to talk in peace without constantly having to hush someone.
The rest of the week managed to pick up a little bit. By Tuesday morning things were more or less back to normal. I had one class in its entirety which went well except for having to move a chatty cathy (or whatever the boy equivalent is) who responded with "J'ai pas un chien, Madame!" (I'm not a dog!)
The week continued like normal and Friday we had yet another orientation in Orleans. This time to catch up, how are things going, talk about all the administrative junk, and give each other some more ideas. Due to the snow, we were about 45 minutes late which I'm sure left a really great impression. Mais, c'est la France! Our original plan was to stay up in Orleans for the evening and go out with our friend Raul's friend from Germany however after the long day and dragging our feet through the snow, we decided to make our way back to Blois. Hoping for something to warm us up internally, we decided to try our hand at vin chaud or mulled wine. Couldn't have gone any better. For 6 of us, we made a recipe involving 4 bottles of wine, 30 cL of cognac, way too much sugar to even think about, 6 cinnamon sticks, 6 whole cloves, and orange zest. The result was absolutely fabulous. Anyone who is interested in drinking some back in the states with me, I am more willing to whip up a batch. Not wanting to disappoint Raul and friend, we decided to try our hand again at Blois' nightlife. Despite our initial disappointment and early evenings, it's really started to pick up. So we decided to check out this supposed "club" in the town called Z64. Wow. All I can say is I can't believe I hadn't been to it before. Each city we go, we keep searching for places to go dancing, Tours we found a late night bar, Lyon, fail, Bordeaux, fail, Paris, fail, and here I am, five minutes away from my house by foot and there is a place to dance, WITHOUT cover. So Friday night we stayed there til about 4 in the morning but then Saturday night I closed the place down and didn't leave until 6:30 in the morning. I don't think I've ever stayed out anywhere that late, maybe 5, 5:30 at the latest. As I was walking home, they were setting up the street for Saint Nicolas and the giant market that was about to take place in the center of town. What a night!
Now, Saint Nicolas is officially the 6th but this Sunday was the day it was celebrated. By about 2pm I finally left my house to check out all the festivities. The night before was the official start of Christmas lights in town, a very anti climatic moment where they just went on at 5:30. I guess Santa was there too but I arrived 5 minutes too late to see him. So normally, Sundays are the most boring day of the week. Everything is closed, no one leaves their house... you kind of want to kill yourself. This sunday was quite the opposite. LIFE. PEOPLE. OPEN STORES. THINGS TO DO! I was like wow the French do exist!
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| This is a view of the street that i live on.... the road curves so I live on the other side of the curve. But this is from the top of the steps of Denis Papin... captured by my cell phone. |
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| Note the Disco ball in the middle |
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| They definitely can do Christmas lights here |




















